You’ve probably heard by now the term kinky. It is most often related to sex to describe wild, unusual tendencies for specific fetishes, role play, and deviant practices in the bedroom. Some of these involve going to extremes, such as being tied up, wearing costumes, polyamory ( having multiple partners), inserting pain on the partner as part of the consensual sex roles, etc.
According to a sexual study conducted, more than 20% of people have engaged in kinky sex at some point in their life. The truth is, many still consider it a taboo topic and don’t want to talk openly about their desires and fetishes with their partners.
In this article, I’ve decided to give you a selection of a diverse range of kinky sex toys that can help you spice up your sex life and keep the fire burning in your bedroom. If you consider yourself open-minded and you are looking for ways to explore new realms in your sexual relationships, have a look at each one of these toys.
Sex Dolls
There are many psychological reasons a person may be drawn to having intercourse with an inanimate object. Sex dolls have become lifesavers for people with little or no sexual experience, social anxiety, no partner, or having one who is unwilling to participate in certain sexual preferences of their own. The truth is, many sex dolls are made so realistic that they can help people unleash their repressed sexual desires. They are made from safe materials such as rubber and usually have a real-life size.
Even though for some people the idea of using dolls for sex sounds a bit off, other people report that they’ve found great satisfaction in incorporating them into their love life. Most often, people who benefit the most are those who have lost their partner or have some physical and mental health issues that present an obstacle to engaging in real-life sex and partnership.
Collars
The release of the movie “Fifty Shades of Gray”, for many couples, has paved a way to not look at their strange sex desires as so offbeat and unusual. As a matter of fact, many have started to use kinky sex objects to explore their sexuality and get to know their partner on a much deeper level. You’ve probably heard the term BDSM which stands for Bondage, Dominance, Submission, and Masochism.
Collars and chokers have long been worn by men and women who like to involve themselves in BDSM, and want to play the submissive role during sexual play with their partner. Most often the person wearing the collar is considered a slave by their partner and they are told to do whatever their partner orders them to do. They find satisfaction in feeling helpless, and in possession by their masters – their actual partners. However, this master/slave relationship doesn’t have to mean that the partners are actually living that way since many couples just use these kinky toys to try something new and explore new frontiers in the bedroom.
Ball Gag
A ball gag is a simple sex toy, a ball that is usually made out of rubber or silicone and is attached to a strap. The ball is placed inside the partner’s mouth and they are used to quiet the submissive partner during consensual sex. These measures and other various types of gags have been used for hundreds of years to humiliate and quiet someone who was held prisoner or tortured due to committing some kind of a crime.
In role-playing, these gadgets are worn primarily either in submissive or dominant roles. The feeling of helplessness and being unable to speak gives many people a sense of enjoyment. Moreover, a ball gag is usually used as means of punishment and inducing control over your partner which further increases the sexual tension in the bedroom, making you feel both aroused and adventurous.
Blindfold
Ever watched the movie “9 and ½ weeks” with Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke? Well, if you haven’t, you should definitely give it a go as it’s considered one of the best erotic romance drama movies. In the scene that is likely to be the most talked-about in this movie, he blindfolds her and begins foreplay by feeding her all kinds of strange foods – sweet and sour, of different textures, each one a surprise to her. He is the one in control while she surrenders to him fully. Feeling a bit inspired to try this with your partner?
Compared to some other, rather complex and heavy-duty sex toys, blindfolds are probably one of the cheapest and easiest to use, yet, one of the most sensual ones used to amp up your sex life. By simply tying a single piece of clothing around your partner’s eyes you can give them the thrill of anticipation of not knowing what happens next. You can practice blindfolding your partner in your bedroom or take it somewhere more exciting and unfamiliar. Being unable to foresee your partner’s moves will keep you on the verge of feeling excited and being at the mercy of your partner’s choices. This creates a source of pleasure for couples and greater chances of increased intimacy and connection during sex.
